Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting thing that we can ask when we are on a first date with someone. You just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview! Questions are the best way to get to know someone and show them we are interested in them. On a first date you just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview!
Dale Carnegie in his best selling ever book, "How to win friends and influence people" writes about the amazing power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to last-base, saving a lot of time trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you're a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask to get conversation moving along. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you're a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What is you all time favourite film and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with five people - real of fictional - who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. What do you regret the most in your life?
8. What has been the abnormal experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on the most?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you masturbating? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?
Dale Carnegie in his best selling ever book, "How to win friends and influence people" writes about the amazing power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to last-base, saving a lot of time trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you're a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask to get conversation moving along. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you're a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What is you all time favourite film and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with five people - real of fictional - who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. What do you regret the most in your life?
8. What has been the abnormal experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on the most?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you masturbating? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?
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